What To Do When Pregnancy Does Not Come
Many times, being focused and aware of work and the stress that this entails, affects our fertility. We decided to have a child, but months pass, even a year, and the pregnancy does not come.
So, we ask ourselves: “What’s wrong with me?” “Why can’t I get pregnant?” ; “Will we have any fertility problems?” It may or may not be a problem for conception.
When we find ourselves in this situation, we turn to stressful avenues of assisted reproduction. But this prevents us from connecting with our true desires and, in addition, makes it difficult to have the peace of mind we need to conceive a child.
What should we do if the pregnancy does not come
The first thing we have to do is rule out that there really is a fertility problem in us or in our partner. This will really tell us what may be going on.
On many occasions, it is not a medical problem that prevents conception, but there can be many factors: physical, mental, emotional that are causing this infertility.
We have to try to discover what may be happening to us so that pregnancy does not come if we do not have any physical problems.
For what reasons a pregnancy does not arrive
There are many and diverse reasons why this can happen. In addition, today, the time to conceive is getting longer due to the work of women, which postpones the moment to a later age.
Unconscious refusal to get pregnant
This usually happens to successful women in public life, in their work. Working 60 or 80 hours a week leaves us exhausted, and a hidden part of us may not want pregnancy simply because we are trying to be valued and respected in the world of work. A pregnancy would prevent us from continuing on this path.
Often times, when we are less involved in work, less immersed in the world of work, we conceive more easily.
Stress
When we are subjected to intense stress, the adrenaline hormone is secreted in large quantities (this hormone related to man) with which the body fights strongly against the feminine.
The consequences may not be seen in the short term, but if we want a pregnancy, we have to realize that, under the influence of stress, the mind cannot think about building the nest, despite being very in love with our partner and being healthy. both of them.
Blind trust in science
We go too quickly to assisted reproduction treatments, as if we were just a hormone machine. Following these techniques, the results can often be disappointing. Why? Because we must not only take this into account, but also our emotional reality.
This does not mean that many couples have achieved pregnancy and continue to do so, but it is not only the hormonal issue that is involved in conception, but also the emotional issue.
Stress during fertilization techniques
When a couple undergoes these techniques to get a child, the technicians ignore that, in many cases, the negative results are a consequence of the stress produced by the method itself.
What can we do if the pregnancy does not come
We must face the affective reality of the couple. This means that we must investigate our hidden part each of us and find out what it is that unites us as a couple.
In some cases, having a child has become the only agreement the couple has. This should be taken into account, since assisted reproduction processes require that the couple be willing to talk, to accompany each other and to nurture that love that unites them, that is, that they be a consolidated couple.
We need to be honest about what we are willing to sacrifice in favor of having a child and be honest about the freedom, success, travel, and peace of mind we will leave behind to have other things.
Sometimes, we are not aware of all the emotional part that comes with achieving conception and, for this reason, pregnancy does not come. Here are some of the reasons why you may not be able to conceive and what you can do about them.
